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Getting to 50/50 – What We Gain from Working

blogI read & reviewed Getting to 50/50: How Working Parents Can Have It All by Sharon Meers & Joanna Strober a couple of weeks ago on Liberating Working Moms. Sadly, life got in the way of my sharing that giveaway with y’all before now. {But I’ve enjoyed this book so much I’m considering in the future giving away my copy because it’s that good.} So good in fact that I had too much to say for one post.

So while it’s still fresh in my mind, I wrote a follow up post for Liberating Working Moms about what we gain from working. Getting to 50/50 spends the first third of the book on this topic. I shared my favorites & why over on LWM this morning.

I feel like as working mothers, we often hear {& even talk amongst ourselves} of what we lose by having a career and family. Things like extra time during the day with our kiddos, the ability to sign them up for the early afternoon dance class, to make it to the 11a library story time.

In reading Getting to 50/50, I learned there’s a whole other side of the coin that we working mothers can & probably should focus on: what we, our spouses & our children gain by us having a job beyond motherhood.

Jump over to LWM What We Gain from Working with me to read the rest? I’d love to hear your thoughts {working moms & stay at home moms alike} on this subject.

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Lucy: Eighteen Months

Oh my sweet, silly Lucy girl. Like I did for your brother last month, the days surrounding your monthday were oh so full & I missed a timely post for you.

But I would be remiss if I didn’t share anything about how awesome my girl is right now before I move on to Thanksgiving & the Christmas advent season.

She is such a ham. Says hey & hi & bye to everyone & blows kisses to all as we leave a restaurant or store. It’s hilarious.

I’ll try to remember her current words but I know I’ll miss some. She says all the family members she’s seen recently- Mommy, Dada, Cici & Pops, Nana & Pawpaw (& Bocce), Papa, & Sue. She’s called Zach Zachy & Brother. Lucy will sometimes say Lucy but often says ‘me me me’ when wanting something or if she’s claiming it as hers. She calls cars ‘beep beep’ after the Little Blue Truck book. She can read our Colors book – banana, shoes, flowers, choo choo train, goldfish, baby & kitty cat. Lucy says dog & knows they say woof woof. She also knows duck (quack), cow (& moo), horse (& nay) & owl (hoo) of course. She says more, all done, pretty, cute, good girl, tickle, book, eat eat, banana, cracker, apple, yo yo (for yogurt), chicken, two, yes, & no.

At their 18th month appointment on the 21st, Lucy weighed 25.8 lbs which put her squarely in the 90th percentile. {Anyone else remember when she was a tiny preemie who I was afraid wouldn’t catch up to her peers?!}

Lucy’s wearing a few 18 mo clothes still but fits better in 18-24. I’ve started pulling out 24 mo tops since she’s long waisted like me. She wore 2t Gymboree leggings on Thanksgiving that weren’t that big on her.

In the recent photos taken by my friend Steph from Lily Mae photography, there’s a shot where Lucy & I are smiling identical smiles. Like we look so similar it scares me. Husband swears he wouldn’t be able to claim her except for her eyebrows & a few expressions are so him.

Toddlerhood is here for Lucy girl. She is coy & silly & likes to get her way. I think we’re in for it when it comes to a stubborn streak & a flare for the dramatic. So often now I forget she’s still my baby when she’s acting & talking & running & dancing like a big girl.

Lucy has two favorite songs- Lady Gaga’s Applause (she says Gaga too) which is her JAM. Lucy starts clapping & bouncing when it comes on. And her other favorite is The B.I.B.L.E. One day she just started going around singing B.I.B.I.B. So she has two letters wrong but it’s ridiculously cute.

Lucy’s learned to kiss this month & will give us & Zach kisses. They’re sloppy & open mouthed but I get as many as I can before she moves on to her next thing.

I can’t wait to see what
your next thing will be, my wild Lucy girl. I’ll look forward to holding your little hand as we leap into December. Happy (belated) birthday!

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Zach: Eighteen Month

Ah! We’re closer to TWO than 1 or birth. Time both flies & it’s also hard to imagine life before this silly, sweet lil man joined us.

We’re really working on language with our boy. Zach still loves his pacis at home. But he’ll spit out giraffe or tiger long enough to say ball, bird, owl, duck, Mommy & Daddy, monk (for monkey), eat eat, tickle, shoes, this, that, Lucy & choo choo (for train). He makes this hilarious lil face when he ask what a dog says & he’ll do the smile & quietly say woof, woof.

He’s so sweet & attentive. When L’s having meltdowns he’ll go find her beloved bunny & bring it to her. Melts my heart. He has the coordinating NA Bear Co puppy he loves to hug on too.

Zach can be a little reserved, but if you say ‘dancing feet’, he’ll stop what he was doing & break into this jump/hop/wiggle/ running man kinda dance moves. It’s ridiculously cute. He loves toys that move- cars, big riding ones & little ones he can push, blocks he can stack & balls he can kick & throw.

Books though are still his favorite toys. This dog puppet book he carried everywhere for a couple days. Little Blue Truck is a stand by we don’t go a day without reading am & before bed.

And speaking of bed, Zach’s been our bed buddy for at least the last 6-8 weeks. Long enough that I’ve forgotten when. It started when he was sick then L was & we were tired & so tired of them waking each other up. So it made our life easier, after his last night sippy & falling asleep in our bed to just leave him there. When it wakes to nurse, I’m right there & we have dream-feeding down pat.

We had his 18 mo ped appointment on the 21st. Zach weighed into the 18th percentile at 21.8 pounds. He’s in the 14th percentile for height at 30.5″. Z bud is our little guy but he’s steadily gaining! The doctor was happy with him; Zach was happy til he got his flu shot! 🙂

Happy 18 mo to my favorite little boy!

(Z was not being so photogenic on the 21st. Will share other pics soon.)

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Halloween 2013

What you don’t post Halloween photos 3 weeks later? Haven’t you heard its what all the cool kids do? No, just me?

Well before I move on to 18 month days & almost Thanksgiving, I thought I’d share pics from Z & L’s Halloween week.

We trick or treated through Jason’s work Monday afternoon.
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Thursday was a busy day with sticker treating at daycare in the am, daycare Halloween snack party at 230p, & then we showed off the lil lion & ladybug at my work.
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We rounded out the evening with a free cupcake from Food Lion (thanks Zach!) & eating & meeting the chickfila cow.
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We took them around trick or treating in just our little neighborhood. They were kinda confused but had a great time.
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Halloween was a blast this year for us all. J & I are still enjoying the candy. 🙂

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Zach: Seventeen Months

Oh Zachypoo. Mama’s sorry. On 10/20, I began your 17 mo post with two words & never got beyond that. My first bloggy motherhood fail {ha! If only!}.

So do I skip this month & write you an epic 18 mo post in 10 days? Maybe, as when you were doing what has kinda ran together.

Know I just love you to pieces & am so proud if your sweet, kind spirit & personality.

But here’s cute photos from {day before} your monthday.

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Laughing with Cici, checking out the living room, modeling your bat hat in 18 mo romper, climbing stairs!

Very happy, very belated 17 months buddy!